Do you qualify for the Marriage Intensive Coaching Program?

This isn't for every couple. It's a premium, Christ-centered group attachment coaching experience for married Christian couples who are serious about making meaningful changes- starting with themselves.

Because this is such emotionally demanding and personalized work, I can only take on a few couples at each enrollment, and those couples must be ready to examine what's happening underneath their conflicts, take ownership of their individual growth, and put what they're learning into practice.

To qualify, you and your spouse must meet the following requirements:

✅ You're both willing to participate. You don't have to be equally enthusiastic or agree on everything, but both spouses must voluntarily agree to participate in the coaching process.

✅ You're ready to take personal responsibility. You're willing to look at and take full personal responsibility for your own wounds, beliefs, triggers, reactions, and behaviors instead of making the entire process about fixing your spouse.

✅ You're open to Christ-centered inner work. You're comfortable exploring your personal values, identity, biblical principles, prayer, forgiveness, repentance, and spiritual growth as part of the coaching process. We will pray in every single session, sometimes multiple times, because Jesus Christ is the Healer. 

✅ You're willing to be radically honest and feel very uncomfortable very often. You're ready to examine difficult patterns, communicate openly, and work toward greater truth, humility, respect, and accountability. You will be feeling LOTS of uncomfortable feelings, and I’ll be here to help you, but a major part of this work is deliberable walking into the uncomfortable feelings instead of avoiding them.

✅ You're committed to the full 5-month program. You understand that meaningful change requires more than showing up for coaching calls. You're willing to complete the reflection exercises, homework, and practical assignments between sessions.

✅ You're willing to negotiate and work toward mutually respectful solutions. You understand that healthy marriage repair requires both spouses to identify their needs, listen to each other, take ownership, and participate in finding workable agreements.

✅ You're able to participate safely in a coaching environment. Your relationship is free from ongoing intimidation, coercive control, violence, or threats that would make joint coaching inappropriate.

✅ You don't currently need a higher level of clinical or specialized care than coaching can provide. This program isn't designed to treat severe or unstable mental health conditions, active substance or behavioral addictions, acute psychiatric symptoms, or other issues requiring specialized treatment. If you or your spouse have a diagnosed mental health condition or a history of addiction, that doesn't automatically disqualify you. What matters is whether your situation is stable, appropriately supported, and suitable for coaching alongside any necessary professional care.

✅ You're willing to fully prioritize and invest in your marriage for 5 months straight. You're prepared to commit the time, energy, emotional bandwidth, honesty, and financial resources required to participate fully in this private coaching experience.

✅ You're willing to be honest and vulnerable with a group and allow accountability from the group. Part of the power of healing comes from being seen and hearing from many perspectives, but this requires everyone participate. No bench-warmers allowed in this group! We're healing as a team.